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“I hate sex.”

There was a time when I cried those three words over and over again before and after I did the deed.

There was a time when I thought that the pain in my vulva must’ve been all my fault. Some twisted consequence of my shameful secretive past.

There was a time when I couldn’t tell the difference between consensual dominating sex, and rape.

There was a time when I had no sense – at all – about what I liked in bed, and definitely no voice to say it.

There was a time when I had sexual experience after sexual experience that didn't quite match my soul, but the hunger for connection was so strong that I just kept going along with it.

There was a time when I thought all these things were 100% my fault. Even my active feminism couldn't explain away my sexual woes. And I had zero understanding of what trauma is, how it works, or how it transforms.

Sitting down to write this Kickstarter copy, I found myself asking, Do I really have to write this part of the story again? Do I really have to tell the gory, ugly, shameful, shitty parts?

Of course I do. Because they’re real. Because they’re what so many people secretly struggle with inside. 

Without a guide. Without a map. With no understanding as to why (even though they’re trying so hard) they’re still chronically and exhaustingly stuck.

I call this chronic stuckness “the trauma spell”. 

The way our reptilian physiology secretly hijacks our capacity to connect to our natural blueprint of health. The way we get stuck looping in incomplete expressions of hyper-socialization, fight, flight or freeze. The way our bodies get triggered and react without our cognitive consent in the moments when we wish they’d just obey.

I love my partner. Why am I so triggered with sex? 

I really want to date again, but I don’t trust myself (or others) to have safe sexual experiences. 

I keep getting into situations where I have no idea how to say what I really want (and end up doing things I don't.)

I feel like I can't trust myself (or anyone else) sexually... 

GAH, what's wrong with me? Will I always be this way?

My answer? No. You truly don’t have to be.

There is healthy sex and true love after trauma. 

And more importantly, there is deep uncompromising belonging to self. 

The kind of self-belonging that makes life feel safe again, in ways beyond imagination, and in moments that extend far beyond the bedroom.

Sex After Trauma is a book of soulful stories and practical guidance for reclaiming safe love and intimate belonging.

After working with hundreds of humans to help them break their trauma spells and come into aligned relationships with their sensuality, sexuality and wholeness (and... after doing so myself!), I’ve developed a clear path and process for guiding people to the other side.

Below are the three main frameworks I use with my clients.

In Sex After Trauma, each of these frameworks thoroughly but gently guides you home to your inherent blueprint of health and wholeness.

The Lifecycle of Holistic Growth • The Map of Reclamation • The Constellation of Healing

This stuff's an immersive journey that requires devotion. I won't say it's easy and I won't say it's fast. But it is wholehearted and it is thorough. 

Sex After Trauma is a map for remembering.

I tell soulful stories. I offer practical guidance. And I share tons of tools you can use to help you retrieve your gifts from the underworld and cross your threshold into a whole new way of being.

We’re living inside a sexual trauma epidemic.

This may seem obvious now in the aftermath of #metoo, Harvey Weinstein, Louis CK, and all the others… 

But it’s not just an epidemic because we can finally tell our stories. 

It’s also not an epidemic because the stories are true and people are finally believing them. 

Yes, in so many ways we're living in a time of systemic collapse and cultural bankruptcy.  

But from my vantage point, the biggest epidemic is that trauma (plus institutionalized oppression) causes you to internalize the cost of other people’s transgressions. 

It makes you think you’re bad for everything that's happened. 

It makes you ashamed for wanting. 

It makes you fear your very own pleasure, your very own turn on, your most innocent holy wet. 

It makes you turn away from the beauty of sex because it’s been desecrated, violated and exploited. 

Or... it has you go the other way: sexing it up in every which way, even if that's not your most aligned expression of health.

What happens to a society where you’re divorced from your authentic pleasure and you fear your truest power? 

Bad things, people. Bad things. 

But what happens to a society where consensual orgasmic union becomes the new norm? 

Where safety, voice, integrity and erotic expression are honed, taught and celebrated? 

We re-birth the blueprint of a healthy planet earth. 

Our cultural and personal pasts do not have to write the future.

But we can’t write a new story if we’re still reacting from an old one. 

Sex After Trauma is the guidebook for healing old hurt and embodying your part of our new collective story. 

Inclusivity.

My intention is for Sex After Trauma to speak to the human experience of needing safe love and intimate belonging, and the many ways this need can be neglected or violated, as well as how we re-cultivate a healthy experience of meeting it.

That said, a majority of my professional experience is working with middle class cis-gendered white women (on the sexual identity spectrum). It's the group whose story I'm most experientially studied in and familiar with, and also is how I personally identify. (I'm also queer and poly-lite.)

There are limits to what I can speak to from personal and even professional experience, which is why I've committed to interviewing a range of people with different intersections of identity for the book. There will still be natural limits to what I can and even should speak to. But this book will include examples and stories from people with a range of intersecting identities.

My goals for the greater impact of this book.

  • To be used as a guide for individuals to navigate their personal healing 
  • To be used by groups of survivors who’d like to walk their healing paths together 
  • To be used as curriculum for professional healing training programs 
  • To be used as a resource for therapists, coaches and healers to share with their clients
  • To be part of the larger conversation about what’s needed for sustainable transformation to happen, both on an individual and cultural level 
  • To be of service to the healing of humanity – making way for pleasure, joy, peace, justice, trust and safety for all beings on earth

Where I am in the writing and publishing process.

The full manuscript of Sex After Trauma is outlined, and a full draft will be complete by early February 2018.

I’ve got a team of editors and publishers that will ensure the book is birthed into the world early September 2018 with the highest quality.

This high quality production is only possible because of your generous support via Kickstarter.

Thank you for helping me make this the best possible book it can be!

My Kickstarter Goals.

I am raising $40,000 to fund all aspects of the editing, publishing, printing and distribution of Sex After Trauma! 

Here's my budget, in more detail: 

  • Developmental Edit $4500 
  • Line + Copy Edit $2000 
  • Publishing $1200
  • Interior Design $2000
  • Cover Design $600
  • Printing $10000
  • Shipping + Distribution $2800
  • Printing + Packaging $1000
  • Audio Book Recording, Editing + Publishing $2300
  • Photo + Video $3500 
  • PR + Advertising $2000 
  • Publicity $1400
  • Tech Support $700
  • Bank Fees $2000 
  • Kickstarter Fees $2000 
  • Miscellaneous Unexpected Costs $2000 

Am I paying myself with this Kickstarter? 

Not on the front end. The funds raised through this Kickstarter are simply to bring the book all the way to the finish line. Once the book is complete, I'll be able to make money off further book sales, and programs I develop that incorporate the teachings in the book. For now, it's all about getting this baby into the world to help as many people as possible.

Rewards, in further detail.

Professionally recorded. Produced with epic love.

Be a lover, baby.

Digital devotion.

10 hours from my lips to your ears. 

All the ways for all the days.

You can have it all. :)

The night will begin with a ceremony of intention, and continue with a mini consent workshop led by me. Then myself and seasoned DJ, Bren Stylewise, will lead you through a dance journey to remember forever.

Hosted in the beautiful La Jolla, California... escape your winter locale and come for an evening of magic, mystery and safe mayhem! I'd sooo love to dance with you!!

I've danced 5rhythms for many years and the music set will take you through an experience of varied emotions and possibilities. Super healing. Super fun. Super sweaty. ;) 

Oh! We'll also get a fun Sex After Trauma backdrop for photoshoots galore... Dress your aliveness, baby. (But make it super comfy for dancing.)

Shabbat is one of my very favorite rituals EVER. In the Jewish tradition, every Friday night we light the candles, sing ancient prayers, feast together and let the illumination of spirit enter our bodies and souls after a week of hard work.

I'd be sooo grateful and honored to share this tradition with you and an intimate group of people at my lil brown house by the sea in La Jolla, California. 

YES. These are seven of the smartest humans I know when it comes to sex education and trauma resolution. 

Tune in to these hour+ long epic interviews and learn from some of my favorite friends and teachers... 

Kimberly Ann Johnson:: post-partum sex and vaginas. 

Rashida KhanBey:: reclaiming your sexy, embracing your body.

Ev’Yan Whitney:: self-image, sexting and whole-self healing.

Amber Leitz:: sex magic and shadow dancing. 

Elizabeth DiAlto:: boundaries and healthy relationships. 

Erin Brown:: sovereignty, feminism and other queen shit.

Reid Mihalko:: for partners of people with sexual trauma.

Healing the hard stuff can be super... hard. But processing your story via writing can be an incredible doorway to personal liberation if it's done safely. 

Get trauma-informed tools + prompts for writing yourself free in this potent collaboration with Writer's Muse, Jeanette LeBlanc.

Included:: 

  • A 10 part course with videos, guidebooks and 23 in-depth exercises delivered in individual lessons 
  • The complete 75 minute video course if you prefer to watch in one sitting 
  • An audio file of the entire video – so you can listen while on the go 
  • Complete PDF Magazine video guide, with full transcription of the video 
  • Complete PDF Workbook with each of the questions and exercises developed from the interview, designed to help you create rituals, practices and support for your writing journey

The Lessons:: 

  • Safely preparing for writing into difficult territory
  • Signs of a traumatic trigger & what to do when you notice them 
  • Determining if it is safe to write or if you need more support before writing 
  • Self-regulation tools to use if you get triggered through writing 
  • Tools and techniques for transformative trauma writing 
  • Dealing with voices of doubt and comparison 
  • Fear of triggering others with your writing 
  • The choice to write publicly or privately and the risk of upsetting loved ones
  • Knowing where to start your story when so much has happened
  • Writing a book (when you have no idea how to write a book)

You + me. 90 minutes. Recorded so you can replay anytime. Bring any topic to the table. Business strategy. Secret traumas. Sex sex sex. Boundary blocks. Discovering your secret sex goddess. Life purpose. You name it, We'll go all in, together. With tons of love.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you for your deep generosity. This kind of healing work costs a lot – not just financially, but in terms of time, energy and commitment. Your gift will give another human a serious boost of cosmic support as they venture into their underworld to reclaim their greatest health. THANK YOU!

I'll send over a page of provocative intake questions, then we'll gather together and set an intention for our 3-session immersion. Each session will be full of deep listening, heaps of compassion and potent intuitive guidance. You'll receive personalized practices specific to the very spot you're in, and you'll leave feeling more connected to your health and capacity than when you came. All our sessions can be recorded for replay whenever you need a boost.

For a high-quality, thorough and soulful experiential learning lab, join me and an intimate group of women as we travel through 12 powerful whole-self reclamation lessons that will leave you deeply changed for the better.

Read ALL about the Sex After Trauma School HERE.

I would love to spend 2 days together moving slowly and safely through your tender spots... revealing your truest strength and realigning to your most holistic health. 

Come join me at my lil brown house by the sea in La Jolla, California. I'll cook for you, read you poems, draw you your own personal maps, take you to my favorite restaurants and listen to your deepest stories. 

We'll do trauma resolution body work, nature oracles, guide work and coaching. 

You'll have two sessions before and two sessions after to prepare and integrate. 

This reward is perfect for the human who wants intimate, uninterrupted attention and tending. Deep presence. Fleshy connection. 

Leading these immersive group experiences is my absolute favorite thing to do! I never knew how powerful a sisterhood could be until I formed these goups and saw their impact. Women leave feeling WAY more confident, healthy, centered, shameless, sensual, safe and like they truly belong as who they really are.

The sisterhood includes 12 live group lessons, 12 live group coaching calls, a 3-day immersive retreat and 2 one-on-ones with me. 

It's a deep dive experience that leaves you with priceless understanding about your path, and invaluable connections as you travel it. 

You can head right HERE to read all the details. 

If you're interested in the sisterhood, please book a call with me right HERE ASAP so we can talk and feel out if it's the right fit for you.

(We can also do a payment plan, if paying in full is out of reach! No problem-o.)

Hello, love. I know what it's like to really want the best care imaginable. To know that if you go all in, you'll come all the way through. It's what I've done. It's how I do. 

If you're like me, this reward is for you. 

Let's talk and feel it out. But know that with this reward you get a 2-day immersive retreat at my house with me, the Sex After Trauma Sisterhood lessons, community and retreat, ongoing 1-on-1 sessions with me that include a personalized program, and the kind of intimate attention that changes everything.

I'd love to connect if you have the sense that it's time, that you're ready. Just book a feeler call with me right HERE.

Payment plans are available, so feel free to reach out and we can make it work. 

Risks and challenges

CHALLENGE: A VERY SENSITIVE TOPIC
Sexual trauma is not easy territory. While many people WANT to resolve and heal their traumas, moving toward that very healing activates lots of fear in the body and mind. I've created a book that aims to offer safe, relatable, educational and healing stories and tools for trauma resolution. Still, many people may have difficulty with the topic, and edge away from it rather than toward it.

CHALLENGE: INCLUSIVITY
My personal and professional experience is limited by my own intersecting identities as well as the identities of most of the people I work with. While endeavoring to tell as much of the "whole story" as I possibly can (which requires I listen to a lot of people's stories that I don't normally hear), my scope is not all-encompassing.

CHALLENGE: PRIVACY AND ANONAMINOTY
I've changed the names and details of all clients in Sex After Trauma. I've also changed the names and details of anyone whose exposure may be negative or non-consensual. Names and identities that remain original do so only with express permission from the people themselves.

Thank you, thank you, thank you! <3 <3 <3

We're on our way to a whole new way, together!

LOVE,

Rachael

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    The 8”x5” softcover book is the perfect size for passing between hands, slipping into a purse, or sliding across the table to a friend in need.

    Thank you for wanting these stories & wisdom close to your heart. <3

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    The Safest & Sexiest Dance Party EVER

    Plus Sex After Trauma BUNDLE :: signed paperback, e-book + audiobook. + Exclusive Insider Goodies.

    LADIES, GENTS & GENDER BENDERS…

    Join me in San Diego on Saturday February 17th (my birthday!) for a dance journey you’ll remember forever. I’ll pass out serendipitous party scrolls written specifically for this very night. I’ll give a short but powerful consent talk so everyone feels extra safe to be deeply self-expressed. And I’ll collab with a professional DJ to curate an unforgettable embodied experience for everyone.

    Dress your aliveness.
    We’ll get a photoshoot backdrop and take pics, too, for all funsies.

    I’m so excited to dance & romance with you!

    You’ll receive Sex After Trauma e-book June 2018, and the paperback and audiobook September 2018.

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    This double-wammy reward includes both Sex After Trauma AND Secret Bad Girl in all mediums :: signed-with-love paperbacks, downloadable e-books, and audiobooks read by Rachael.

    It’s the perfect reward for you if you want a full package of literary wisdom on all things sexual healing and reclamation.

    You’ll receive Secret Bad Girl in all the mediums January 2018.
    You’ll receive Sex After Trauma e-book June 2018, and the paperback and audiobook September 2018.

    Thank you for wanting it all… and letting yourself have it. <3

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    Shabbat Dinner & Mini Music Concert

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    Join me at my lil brown house by the sea on February 9th for candle light, ancient prayers, homemade jewish food, intimate conversation and super sweet connection. I’ll play you a mini concert of my favorite original songs. It’ll be totally tender and lovely.

    You’ll receive Sex After Trauma e-book June 2018, and the paperback and audiobook September 2018.

    Thank you for wanting to be together in this sacred, intimate way. <3

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    Tune in to seven epic interviews with trauma-informed educators and sexperts sharing their secret wisdom on all things sexuality, relationships and holistic healing.

    Reid Mihalko:: for partners of people with sexual trauma.
    Kimberly Ann Johnson:: post-partum sex and vaginas.
    Amber Leitz:: sex magic and shadow dancing.
    Elizabeth DiAlto:: boundaries, spiritual healing and healthy relationships.
    Ev’Yan Whitney:: self-image, sexting and whole self healing.
    Rashida KhanBey:: reclaiming your sexy, embracing your body.
    Erin Brown:: sovereignty, feminism and body positivity.

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    Healing the hard stuff can be super... hard. But processing your story via writing can be an incredible doorway to personal liberation if it's done safely. Get 10 trauma-informed lessons, tools + prompts for writing yourself free in this potent collaboration with Writer's Muse, Jeanette LeBlanc.

    Check out the REWARD DESCRIPTIONS to the left to learn more.

    And thank you for the courage it takes to write your story… even just for yourself. As Jeanette likes to say, your story is where the revolution begins. <3

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    In this 90-minute session, you’ll bring your most pressing desire to the table, and we’ll discover your natural aptitude for embodying it, we’ll reveal the thing that’s blocking you, and we’ll co-create a very personal pathway forward. Any topic you’d like to bring is welcome, from business to crowdfunding to sex to creativity to trauma.

    See above for the bundle delivery dates.

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    Provide $500 for a woman to heal deeply from what’s hurt her the most.

    A scholarship application will go out at the beginning of the year, and this $500 will be applied to a service of her choosing.

    Thank you so incredibly much for your generosity and love. Truly, truly, truly.

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    3 Session Package with Rachael

    3 1-on-1 90-minute Trauma Transformation Sessions. Done over skype or in-person.

    Bring whatever's real on your heart that you know you need held in the safest most professional space. I'll meet you there, and we'll travel where it's been too hard to go on your own.

    <3

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    The Sex After Trauma School includes 12 live 2-hour video lessons on topics such as trauma 101, sexual healing, boundary repairs, sensual safety, consent, communication, trigger recovery, and more. It also includes ample trauma-informed practices, and a safe and moderated-by-me Facebook group.

    Head over the the REWARDS descriptions on the left to read more.

    We begin January 23, 2018.

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    2-day Immersive Retreat with Rachael

    I would love to spend 2 days together moving slowly and safely through your tender spots... revealing your truest strength and realigning to your most holistic health.

    Come join me at my lil brown house by the sea in La Jolla, California. I'll cook for you, read you poems, draw you your own personal maps, take you to my favorite restaurants and listen to your deepest stories.

    We'll do trauma resolution body work, nature oracles, guide work and coaching.

    You'll have two sessions before and two sessions after to prepare and integrate.

    This reward is perfect for the human who wants intimate, uninterrupted attention and tending. Deep presence. Fleshy connection.

    This reward includes the Duo Book Bundle + All About Sex (After Trauma) Interview Series + Exclusive Insider Goodies.

    Includes:
    • Secret Bad Girl Ebook
    • Secret Bad Girl Paperback
    • Secret Bad Girl Audiobook
    • Sex After Trauma Ebook
    • Sex After Trauma Paperback
    • Sex After Trauma Audiobook
    • All About Sex Interview Bundle
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    Sex After Trauma Sisterhood

    The Sex After Trauma Sisterhood is for women who are ready to go deep and get free together.

    Included in the Sisterhood is 12 live 2-hour video lessons on topics such as trauma 101, sexual healing, boundary repairs, sensual safety, consent, communication, trigger recovery, and more.

    It also includes 12 live 2-hour group coaching calls, a 3-day in-person RETREAT in San Diego, two 90-minute 1-on-1s with Rachael, and a super safe community Facebook group.

    Head to rachaelmaddox.com/sisterhood to read more about it and book a call to talk if you're interested in joining!

    We begin January 23, 2018.

    Includes:
    • Secret Bad Girl Ebook
    • Secret Bad Girl Paperback
    • Secret Bad Girl Audiobook
    • Sex After Trauma Ebook
    • Sex After Trauma Paperback
    • Sex After Trauma Audiobook
    • All About Sex Interview Bundle
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    Cross Your Threshold

    Hello, love. I know what it's like to really want the best care imaginable. To know that if you go all in, you'll come all the way through. It's what I've done. It's how I do.

    If you're like me, this reward is for you.

    Let's talk and feel it out. But know that with this reward you get a 2-day immersive retreat at my house with me, the Sex After Trauma Sisterhood lessons, community and retreat, ongoing 1-on-1 sessions with me that include a personalized program, and the kind of intimate attention that changes everything.

    I'd love to connect if you have the sense that it's time, that you're ready. Just book a feeler call with me at meetme.so/rachaelmaddox.

    Delivery dates:
    1-on-1 Coaching: Feb 2018
    1-on-1 Retreat: April 2018
    Sex After Trauma Sisterhood: Late Jan 2018

    Includes:
    • Secret Bad Girl Ebook
    • Secret Bad Girl Paperback
    • Secret Bad Girl Audiobook
    • Sex After Trauma Ebook
    • Sex After Trauma Paperback
    • Sex After Trauma Audiobook
    • All About Sex Interview Bundle
    • Sex After Trauma Sisterhood
    • 2 Day Immersive Retreat with Rachael
    • 1 - on - 1 Trauma Transformation Coaching
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