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Inspiring young women to find themselves and pursue their passions through true stories that are inspiring, funny & vulnerable.
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    SNEAKY PEEKERS: You’ll get instant digital access to a never-before released sample chapter of Be Your Own Boyfriend (BYOB). This backer level is also how you get access to all our uber-special backer updates. //// TO DOWNLOAD THE SAMPLE CHAPTER: Simply go to the backer updates section on this page and scroll to the update that says "Download your free sample chapter here!"

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    WHY HELLO THERE!: 2 delightful BYOB greeting cards of your choice – one for you and one to send to a friend who needs some BYOB love (just in time for Valentine's Day). Also: sample chapter to download

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    BYOB E-BOOK: You get your very own e-book version of Be Your Own Boyfriend for your Kindle, iPad, or Nook. Also: sample chapter for immediate download

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    BYOB NO-BRAINER PACKAGE: We send you a SIGNED paperback copy of Be Your Own Boyfriend along with the collector’s set of 4 BYOB greeting cards and a BYOB bookmark. Also: sample chapter for immediate download

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    BYOB GIFTER: Get TWO signed copies of Be Your Own Boyfriend. Also: 2 bookmarks, sample chapter for immediate download.

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    BYOB PRINTMASTER FLASH: You get the two 8.5” x 11” BYOB prints (book cover + manifesta) + the BYOB e-book version + everything in the BYOB NO-BRAINER PACKAGE (signed book, collectors set of BYOB greeting cards, bookmark, and sample chapter for immediate download)

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    BYOB 4-PACK: Get a group of friends together to buy 4 signed copies of Be Your Own Boyfriend. Also: 4 bookmarks; sample chapter for immediate download.

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    GIRL TALK!: Read the book and let's talk! At this level, you get access to a one-hour small group ask-Kaneisha-anything virtual Q&A session to be held in March + everything in BYOB PRINTMASTER FLASH LEVEL: (both BYOB prints, e-book, signed book, collector’s set of greeting cards, bookmark, and sample chapter for immediate download.) The Q&A sessions are limited to 20 attendees each and you can choose from several themed Q&A sessions: (1) love, sex + dating (2) living the luscious single life (3) finding your passion / changing careers (4) writing, publishing, and marketing

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    BYOB NAME IN THE BOOK: Get a signed, numbered, limited edition hardcover copy of Be Your Own Boyfriend with your name in the thank you section! ALSO: collectors set of greeting cards, both BYOB prints, BYOB bookmark, sample chapter for immediate download.

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    BYOB GIVING BACK: We will mail 2 signed paperback copies of BYOB to a women's shelter, college women's center, or library of your choice with a "donated by YOUR NAME HERE" bookplate inside each book (You can specify the exact organization you want to receive the book or choose a college women's center from our list.) PLUS 1 signed, numbered, limited edition hardback copy of BYOB mailed to you to enjoy! You also get your name in the book!

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    QUOTE IN THE BOOK: Got something to say to the readers of Be Your Own Boyfriend? Here's your chance to share some self-love wisdom. We will work with you to craft a great quote to be included in the book, which will include your name and title (or you can be anonymous if you wish). ALSO: You get a signed, limited edition hardcover copy of the book with your name in the thank you section, collector's set of greeting cards, both BYOB prints, bookmark, and sample chapter.

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    COACHING CALL WITH KANEISHA: Have a 60-min 1-on-1 coaching call or live work session with Kaneisha via Skype about: MBA/MPP admissions, starting your own profitable passion-fueled business, or relationship and dating issues. PLUS: Get a signed paperback copy of Be Your Own Boyfriend!

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    BYOB GODFATHER/MOTHER: Heey Papi (or Mami)! You get all kinds of deliciousness! We send you a limited edition hardcover copy of BYOB (signed, inscribed, numbered) with your NAME IN THE THANK YOU SECTION; admission for 2 to a BYOB workshop (in Austin or virtual); 4 registrations to a Girl Talk session for you and your friends; a one-hour coaching session on a topic of your choice with Kaneisha (for you or a friend); 4 signed paperbacks with BYOB bookmarks and 4 e-books to gift; 2 complete collectors sets of the BYOB greeting cards; 2 sets of BYOB prints (4 prints in total); the sample chapter to download; and of course my deepest and heartfelt gratitude.

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    DELUXE COACHING PACKAGE: Get four 60-minute 1-on-1 coaching calls or live work sessions via Skype with Kaneisha on MBA/MPP admissions, starting a business, or relationship issues. PLUS: 1 hardcover signed inscribed and numbered copy of Be Your Own Boyfriend with your name in the book!

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    BYOB ULTIMATE FAN: This is for the person who LOVES Be Your Own Boyfriend's message and wants to spread it far and wide! WHAT YOU GET: 10 signed hardcover copies of the book + 20 signed paperback copies of the book to resell and/or give out to everyone you love + 2 paperback copies mailed to a college women's center of your choice. We will also work with you to create a great quote to be included in the book. Your name will be in the thank you section of all books as well. ALSO: 1 collector's set of greeting cards, both BYOB prints, 1 bookmark, and sample chapter for immediate download.

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