Only the Golem Gang patch will glow under blacklight. Due to the limited selection of ultraviolet-reactive embroidery thread, I was not able to make all of the patches glow-friendly.
See this backer update for details: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/georgecoghill/legendary-legion-folklore-creature-embroidered-pat/posts/2020481
Nope. The shipping fee will cover up to a pound of patches, and if your pledge manages to exceed that, the extra shipping cost is on me!
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