Yes. If you pledged for one of the reward tiers that allows you to put your name in the Thank You section of the book, you'll get a survey after the Kickstarter ends asking what name you'd like to appear in the book. You're free to type in whatever name you choose, including a relative or past Coastie.
I'll send out a survey after the Kickstarter ends (and probably after transfer season) so that people can fill in which address they'd like their rewards sent to. Since military people get moved around a lot, I'll leave the address info unlocked for editing until I'm ready to ship, in case you need to change it again.
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