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This film is an intimate portrait of an artist whose work has given language and permission to thousands of people to live their lives.
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Back on the Road!

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Happy 2015 to all our friends and supporters of Kate Bornstein is a Queer & Pleasant Danger! 

Thank you all, so much, for your ongoing support this year at film festivals, universities, and on social media. Over the past 9 months, the film has been programmed in over 60 festivals, museums, galleries and universities worldwide. We even picked up 4 awards! 

  • 1 OF THE TOP 10 BEST DOCS OF 2014, The Advocate Magazine 
  • BEST FEATURE DOCUMENTARY, Audience Award from Trans|Lations Film Festival
  • FAVORITE FILM, Audience Award at Beacon Independent Film 

     We have international screenings programmed from now until the June 2015 – check here for details. And, we FINALLY have three NYC screenings! Our June screening at Union Docs sold out in two days. So, please, mark your calendars! If you haven’t seen it in a theater (meaning, you’ve only seen it on your computer) we highly recommend that you join us in person—it’s much more fun and moving in a theater with a crowd. Kate and I will be at both February screenings.

  •  2/6, 9pm – ($12, students $5) Athena Film Festival @ Barnard College
  •  2/7, 7pm – (FREE) Gender Reel Film Festival @ NYU 
  •  4/22, 7pm – (FREE) CLAGS @ The CUNY Grad Center 

Starting in February, Kate Bornstein, and I will resume the academic film tour. If you are interested in having your school participate, please visit: 

Here is a list of more upcoming screenings. We hope to see you there!

1/14 & 1/17 -Budapest Pride, Budapest, Hungary
1/14-Albert-Ludwigs-University, Freiburg, Germany 

2/1 -ReelOut, Ontario, Canada
2/6 – Athena Film Festival,(Sam & Kate in attendance), New York, NY
2/7 - Gender Reel NYU: Transgender Film Festival (Sam & Kate in attendance), New York, NY 

3/4- Hammer Museum, (Sam & Kate in attendance) Los Angeles, CA
3/10 - Festival Ecrans Mixtes, Lyon, France
3/22 - Nyack Pride Film Screening, Nyack, NY
3/25 - Bridgewater State University, Bridgewater, MA
3/31 - College of New Jersey, Ewing, NJ (Sam & Kate in attendance)
TBA - PATOIS-New Orleans International Human Rights Film Festival, New Orleans, LA 


4/22 CLAGS, CUNY Grad Center, New York, NY

 TBA - Identities, Vienna, Austria 

Sam and the Kate Bornstein is… Team

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Praise for Kate Bornstein is a Queer & Pleasant Danger

 “I always refer Kate Bornstein as my "Fairy Tran-Mother". She plucked me from the chorus and showed me how to begin to love myself for who I am. She has saved countless lives but she gave birth to me. Hopefully this astonishing film will help you learn to be the most honest, courageous and fulfilled version of YOU that is possible. Kate is an inspiration!” -Mx Justin Vivian Bond, Trans-genre artist 

 “To do justice to his subject, Feder’s film was constructed with lyrical unconventionality intertwining Bornstein’s past and present through intimate slices of life… In a post-film discussion with Bornstein, Feder explained an intentional resistance to a traditional form of trans* narrative story-telling. “By nature, those narratives are very limiting and they pander to expectations. But it’s also limiting in the sense that it would be such a small part of the story—there’s so many sides to explore, emotional tones to hit that can’t really be hit with that sort of linear unfolding” - Windy City Media Group 

 “Instead of following a linear progression from childhood to the present day, the documentary is fluid and organic, making it feel like a conversation rather than an explicit narrative. I felt like I had gone to visit Bornstein in her home, and to chat with the people in her life closest to her. The film left me with the sense that I’d really love to meet Bornstein in person”. – Dana Sayer, The Horn

 “This is a must see film of 2014. Bornstein’s family history and relationships, stint in The Church of Scientology, her writing, books, activism, relationships, themes of gender and sexuality, a striking health diagnosis, and her search to answer some of life’s deepest questions are explored in this interwoven, whimsical, and inspired portrait documentary of the wonderful Kate Bornstein. It’s a must see documentary and a treasure trove of preserved queer/trans history of Kate Bornstein’s life and work. It is also sure to warm hearts: Kate’s charm pours out of the screen and is so affecting. Her recent cancer diagnosis, on top of her lifelong leukemia, make the production of the documentary incredibly timely and incredibly necessary.” – Ewan Duarte, Indie Wire 

 “It is revolutionary!” Sam Berliner, Audience Awards 

 “Even if you think you know everything there is to know about Bornstein, Feder’s film will show you sides you hadn’t imagined were there”. -Chris Dupuis, XTRA! Toronto Gay & Lesbian News   

June Update: Awards, Press & Screenings!

Greetings Backers! 

See below for updates on awards, press, screenings & Kickstarter.

Awards: We are proud to have received the Best Feature Documentary Audience Award  @Trans|lations!

The film was selected as the closing night film for: 

(Unrelated to the film but we wanted to share) We are so excited that Kate was honored with a Pioneer Award at this year’s Lammys !

Screenings: Since our world premier in London we have screened the film at:

The response has been wonderful!

The film has also been selected to be part of the Sheffield Doc/Fest Videotech for the next 3 months.

Later this summer, we will be screening in: 

For more screening details and updates please visit our website: Screenings

Stay updated by following us on Twitter & Facebook

Press: To announce the NYC premier, TL Cowan has interviewed director, Sam Feder for

Kickstarter:  In April, Sam mailed out the last of the Kickstarter rewards.  Please let us know if you haven’t received yours. 

Have a wonderful rest of June! Hope to see you at one of the festival screenings.

Sam & The Kate Bornstein Is… Team 


Sam & Kate Skyping in for a Q&A!
Sam & Kate Skyping in for a Q&A!


Best Documentary Feature Audience Award
Best Documentary Feature Audience Award


Press for Toronto Screening
Press for Toronto Screening


Pioneer Award @ the Lammys
Pioneer Award @ the Lammys


Last night's NYC premier and Q&A
Last night's NYC premier and Q&A


San Francisco Premier!


A very quick note to our West Coast backers:

Kate Bornstein Is a Queer & Pleasant Danger will have it's San Francisco premier in the SF Indie Doc/Fest this Saturday at the Roxie at 12:30pm. Get a ticket before it sells out. (Our NY premier sold out 3 weeks prior!)

Kate and I will Skype in for the intro and Q&A. Hope to see you there!


World Premier may not happen if mis-naming/gendering isn't accounted for


Greetings backers, 

In case you haven't heard, I am sharing a recent misfortune with BFI Flare film festival where the film was scheduled to premier in March.

On Feb 27th, after having no resolution via private email with the festival, I posted a message on my Facebook page. Below that post is the festival's response, followed by a letter of support from Dr. Getsy, and lastly my letter stating what I would like to see happen.

Feb 27th, 2014 

The London lgbt film festival has mis-gendered me in their printed materials for my film on Kate Bornstein. They used the name "Samantha", which, beside feeling humiliated due to trans issues, I have never been called that name in all my 38 years. My parents never even called me that! Someone on their staff made the choice to use that name despite the fact that I only use Sam on all submission materials and film materials of any kind. I understand that they don't "get it" -- that it's actually painful and unkind. But they need to. Seeking thoughts and how to convey to them why it is not acceptable.

Feb 28th, 2014

Dear Sam,

We unreservedly apologise for the mistake which, though it may sound unlikely, was due to over eager proofing by someone from the BFI team in the very final stages of creating our programme guide. Let me explain.

As you rightly said, you submitted all of your work under the name Sam. The programmers and programme staff are all very aware you are Sam and have been communicating with you as Sam throughout our dialogue.

We wrote copy about you as Sam. We listed you as Sam when creating the programme. However, and very unfortunately, someone outside of the programme team consulted another source in the final proofing stages, where you are listed as 'Samantha'. This was then changed, with best intentions, but without proper internal discussion.

As stated above, this is very disappointing for us all. We take pride in the fact that our trans programming has really come of age in the last half a decade; that we have gender neutral loos; that we have just changed the name of our festival from L&G to BFI Flare: London LGBT Film Festival to reflect our diverse audiences.

We are disappointed. Our trans programmer Jason Barker is mortified. And we know this has been embarrassing for you. The mistake has now been rectified on the Festival website and we are putting internal measures in place to avoid similar errors in future.

We hope you can accept our apology.

With sincere regards, Tricia Tuttle Deputy Head of Festivals, BFI

Feb 28th, 2014

An open letter to the BFI on behalf of Sam Feder 28 February 2014

Dear Tricia Tuttle, Deputy Head of Festivals:

It has come to my attention (and indeed, it’s already gone viral) that a serious situation has arisen with the publicity materials for the BFI Flare Film Festival and the listing of Sam Feder’s credits for the film _Kate Bornstein is a Queer and Pleasant Danger_. While I acknowledge the apology that has been made to Feder, I felt it incumbent on me to add my voice to those who call for a decisive correction to the problem in the printed materials.

I am a historian, and I think of things in relation to the histories they can and will create. Quite frankly, this is a disastrous mistake that will, if uncorrected, be taken up in historical narratives. There has been a decades long struggle by transgender activists and communities to combat their uncritical assimilation and erasure by otherwise well-meaning movements and organizations based around sexuality. While there has been a productive and dynamic relationship between transfolk and gays and lesbians, their concerns differ in significant ways. A vocal and widespread transgender politics and transgender scholarship both emerged out of the realization that the issues transfolk faced were being disregarded or caricatured by their allies in gay, lesbian, and queer social movements. A trans politics, history, and community was called forth from these debates about visibility and survival. In addition to widespread prejudice in mainstream culture, that is, transfolk also had to fight misconceptions and condescension from their allies in queer politics and scholarship. Your current situation not only invokes this history, it is participating in it.

Kate Bornstein is one of the most impactful of the leaders of the movement for trans rights and politics, and it is against the backdrop of this history that the BFI’s actions take on amplified importance. It seems remarkable to me that the BFI has not recognized that — especially with this biographical film about Bornstein — to make such a significant error as incorrectly printing the name and gender of its director is disastrous. Such a mistake about any individual is a major problem, but to do so in relation to the history-making event of this film is egregious.

Let me be frank: as a historian, I can say without a doubt that this mistake will become part of the narrative of trans history and the story of the prejudice against trans lives. Regardless of whether the mistake was honest or clerical, the decision to slight the demand to rectify the improper naming because of the cost of printing your materials will be seen as a concrete instance of prejudice and grudging tolerance of trans films in your festival and, more broadly, in the BFI. (And, let’s not forget, it is printed materials rather than online posts and websites that enter the archives and last the longest.)

In short, if not fully addressed, this will come back to haunt the festival and the BFI. While it may seem minor to some of your interlocutors and able to be overlooked, it is this “detail” which will take on mythic proportions. I understand you must be under many pressures internal and external, ethical and financial, but I urge you to address the situation.

Sincerely yours, David J. Getsy, Ph.D. Goldabelle McComb Finn Distinguished Professor of Art History and Chair, Department of Art History, Theory, and Criticism The School of the Art Institute of Chicago

March 2,2014

Dear BFI Flare & Tricia Tuttle,

My name is Sam Feder. I am trans and I prefer gender-neutral pronouns: they/their/them. If that’s too awkward feel free to use he/him/his. Those are awkward for me but I will meet you half way. We are all still learning.

Upon hearing that my film, "Kate Bornstein Is A Queer & Pleasant Danger", was accepted into the BFI Flare festival, I was elated. To be part of such a storied and important LGBT festival was a true honor for both me and Kate Bornstein. As you know, Kate is an unparalleled figure within queer theory and the everyday lives of trans, bi, questioning, queer, lesbian and gay people worldwide. It is safe to say her lectures, books, performances, and tweets have saved many lives. So it was with great disappointment when I learned I was improperly named and mis-gendered on the BFI Flare website and printed materials. When I discussed this mistake with friends the situation quickly went viral, as you can imagine - such a huge issue will erupt as an effect of mis-gendering someone at an ostensibly LGBT safe event.

I used social media to inquire what the festival organizers were going to do to correct mis-gendering me. It was then that a deeper disappointment hit. Tricia Tuttle let us know that no steps would be taken to address the mistake on the printed materials. While I, and those involved in the film, acknowledge the apology and the fact that the festival will look at what happened to ensure it will not happen again, it is unfortunately not enough. Being mis-named, mis-gendered and mis-identified impacts me professionally. The only name associated with my work is and has only been Sam Feder. Other programmers refer to your festival and they will follow suit. Audience members who don’t know me will meet me for the first time with the incorrect name and assume the incorrect gender.

But of course, this is not just about me, my gender, my career, or, the film. It is about how we within our community deal with each other's right to self-determination.

I encourage BFI Flare to be the leaders that you are by taking full responsibility for the error, by:

1. printing corrective flyers for the program—a standard fix at film festivals for this level of error. I ask to approve them before they are printed. 2. printing a sticker with the name Sam Feder to place over the wrong name in the program.

Some colleagues of mine have suggested I pull the film. Instead I want to work with BFI Flare. Together we have an opportunity to do right by the community by printing a corrective flyer for the program to insert into the page where my film appears. To be clear it is important that the insert contains my correct name, Sam Feder, a message from the festival detailing their commitment to self-determination, and resources for trans legal, medical, and social support in the area. Again, I ask to approve this before it goes it print. These actions will show you understand the gravity of the error. With these actions your apology will have meaning. As present your apology means nothing to me. For the public, funders and audience to take seriously that you want the festival to be "inclusive" and "welcoming to all audiences" the festival must make at least the most basic of amends when an error had been made. I believe in BFI Flare and know that together we can turn this around.

I look forward to working with you to correct the mistake and remind the community that you don’t believe the T is silent.


Sam Feder

News, The Website, KS Rewards and You


Dear Friends,

As we began the festival circuit one of the film's investors was so enamored they have invested the extra money needed to take the film from 70-minutes to 90-minutes so it could reach a larger audience in a theatrical release! 

In order to expand upon our story we would like to talk to people who feel that their work (art, activism, academic pursuits… you tell us(!)) has been influenced by Kate Bornstein’s books, performances, social media presence, plays, workshops or, by simply meeting her. If you are interested please contact us at: katebornsteinmovie (at) gmail (dot) com. See the post here.

In other news, Version1 will continue to screen until further notice. Check the Website for updates. 

With some wonderful volunteers we've been able to pack up most of the KS rewards and I will be shipping them out asap. You will love them!

Thank you for your continued support.

Sam & The Kate Bornstein Is....Team

We are packing up your rewards!
We are packing up your rewards!