The $1 pledge level gets you access to the pledge manager, at which time you can pledge at the $59 reward level or higher to receive all stretch goals. But yes, if you pledge $99 you would receive all of the add-ons from the $99 Feudum Friend reward.
Yes. There is now a "Big Box" reward level. It counts as "1 game" under the shipping chart, but it contains the contents of all 3 expansions (minus their boxes) inside the regular box. (The box is the same box).
All Stretch Goals are items that are unlocked throughout the duration of the campaign. The Stretch Goals marked “Free” are included with every $59 reward level and up. The Stretch Goals not marked “Free” can be purchased as add-ons in the pledge manager after the campaign.
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