I will contact each backer who has pledged for the Orichalcum Edition and work out whether they want to use their pledge for a different reward tier (so long as it is not a limited tier that has been filled already) or a full refund. Any refund, full or partial, will be paid via PayPal.
No. There will be PDF and also physical book Print on Demand versions available via DriveThruRPG.com, but Exalted 3rd Edition will not be sold into traditional channels. Individual stores may have copies of the PoD versions or the Deluxes depending on whether they worked with us to get them.
No, just the Orichalcum. The description after the colon ( : ) is just that, a description that says that the Orichalcum Edition starts with what is essentially a regular Deluxe EX3, then adds signing, numbering, and the golden metal insert with sigils.
Click on "Manage Your Pledge" and go to your Pledge Page. Look for your amount pledged- upper left corner- and then manually change the amount by adding the extra cost listed with each Add-on that you're adding. Those costs are listed on the main EX3 KS page in the How Does This Work? Add-ons section.
The only way to get the Deluxe EX3 is through this Kickstarter. Some retailers may take advantage of the Retailer Reward Tiers here and so a few stores may have them. There is no non-Deluxe version that will be on sale in stores, but there will be PDF and physical Print on Demand books available for order online through DriveThruRPG.com some time after this Kickstarter is over.
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