About this project
This just out in the Boston Globe. And today in Tablet.
We were just written about in Psychology Today. Make note of her description of mom, "geriatric shock jock."
This interview just came out in Psych Central Part 1 and Part 2 "Unflinchingly honest."
"My Nose: The Bigger Version. An earthy, intense, tangy look at one mother-daughter relationship. Kind of like a Jewish-American Joy-luck Club. It’s even got Mah Johng. Only with matzoh balls instead of won tons." - C.R. Zwolinksi
"This film is funny, sad, candid and insightful. It's a film for anyone who has ever had a mother or ever had a nose."
-Frazier Moore, Associated Press Television Writer
I’m making a personal film that promises to help many people -- people who are suffering from growing up with a critical and abusive parent, people who have been struggling with low self-esteem and body image their whole lives, people who for years have been carrying anger and resentment towards the people who have caused them harm.
I was the youngest of three children -- the only girl after two boys, so you'd think my mother won the lottery when she finally gave birth to a female. That’s not what happened, however, and I came into this world feeling like Cinderella. My mother turned her anger turned towards me and nothing I did was ever right. I left home when I was 16 and that’s when my journey to recovery began. I was so damaged that I thought if my mother died I would be liberated. Today, she is my closest friend and I love her dearly. It took many years and lots of hard work, tears, and pain to get to where we are now. A few years ago, I began giving seminars teaching others how to transform their own difficult relationships. I made an award winning comedic short about my mother's attempts to convince me to have a nose job called MY NOSE. It succeeded beyond expectations with many people relating to it on different levels. Due to the audience hunger for more I decided it was time to tell our story by going deeper by opening up my life for a more complex film. My mother agreed to allow cameras in and we’ve been shooting for the last several years.
We now need your help to
finish the film. Since the release of the trailer, several networks are looking forward
to seeing what mom and I have in store for them. An executive at HBO
wrote, "You have a great style and
infectious on camera presence and your mother is a force." They await the
After years of working with several devoted young talented people and primarily self-financing, the production is 200K away from its finish and release to the world. We are planning on spreading the word everywhere. Who doesn't have a mother? Who doesn't have issues with critical people?
HOW YOUR MONEY WILL HELP
Your support will help us finish the film. We have been shooting for eight years and have been prepping to start editing. We need the funds to bring on a great editor and all the other costs related to post and distribution. We will also be doing some final shooting as we are editing.
Please note that in this economy, funds are tight and it is very difficult to get grants for personal films. We can't do this without you!! Please consider helping in anyway you can including spreading the word.
We have incentives at different levels. Please make a contribution of any size now. Get your name down there as a backer and join our effort, campaign and community. Let's get this film done so we can inspire and help others who are suffering from unresolved relationships with a critical parent or loved one.
Here's a breakdown of how we plan to use the funds:
1. Pay for equipment including hard drives, editing system
2. Pay for editor
3. Pay for composer
4. Pay for film music rights (world release)
5. Pay for colorist
6. Pay for animator
7. Pay for sound design and mix
8. Pay for online editing session
9. Pay for various outputs
10. Pay for editing various versions of the film for as many different outlets as possible: Theatrical, Domestic Broadcast, International Broadcast
11. Pay for marketing and press
12. Pay for subtitling
13. Pay for film festival entries
Documentaries are non-commercial films and although if successful they could have enormous impact on society, financially they are similar to non-profit endeavors. Most people, like myself, produce documentaries out of passion and a need to communicate a story. We do not do this because we believe there is a big pot of gold at the end. Our reward is measured by the reaction of the audience and impact it has. That is why distribution is so important and your funds are so needed to get us there.
WITH YOUR DONATION WE WILL BE ABLE TO:
-Reach millions across the globe through film festivals, a targeted theatrical release, international and national television broadcasts, educational distribution, online distribution, and corporate, organizations and community screenings.
-Act as a tool in healing and transforming the lives of those involved in abusive parent-child relationships.
-Provide awareness of unique seminars and forums that can be utilized when dealing with difficult relationships and their effects.
·Provide inspiration and hope that changes for the better can occur even in the most damaging situations.
MY NOSE: THE BIGGER VERSION will have an impact on families everywhere. For those who have been victims of abusive parent-child relationships, this film will serve as an active tool to learn and heal.
WHY MY NOSE: THE BIGGER VERSION WILL SUCCEED?
Based on the success of the short film, the overwhelming reaction from the public and positive press we've received, it's apparent there is already an audience for the message and story this film will convey.
As a matter of fact, as a result of the popular response to the film, I developed “The Seven Healing Tools” teaching people how to deal with critical parents and people in their life. MY NOSE: THE BIGGER VERSION explores the depths of this abusive mother-daughter relationship, and sheds hope of relationship transformations.
NEW AND FINAL REWARD! (Updated 9/5/11) Campaign ends tomorrow
1 Hour Holistic Tech Support with Miki Noam
If you need help connecting your TV to the media center to the
computer to the turntable or vice verse, if you are not sure how to
use some fancy new software you bought or a cool new gadget you
received, if people are talking about the next huge thing on the
Internet and you don't know what it is good for and how you should use
it - you can benefit from Holistic Tech Support.
Connect your creative life with the geeky devices that should make it
easier for you to talk with people, record music, organize your photos
and edit your videos.
Support for all computers and gadgets, hook them with each other and
publish it to the interwebs.
NEW REWARD OFFER! GRAB THIS OPPORTUNITY BEFORE THE CAMPAIGN ENDS ON SEPTEMBER 6TH!! (Updated: 9/2/11)
2 Haircuts available with Hairstylist Roberto Novo at a value of $250, but you only have to pledge $140 and along with your pledge, you get other goods!
***Roberto Novo is a hairstylist to the stars plus my hairstylist. He handles Calvin Klein, Grace Jones, Pink, Nicole Scherzinger from the Pussycat Dolls, and Britney Spears.
TWO NEW REWARDS: LIMITED!!! (Updated: 8/22/11)
1. TWO WEEK STAY in CHINA (Updated 9/6/11)
INCENTIVE PRICE REDUCED MORE THAN HALF
For 4 people this is only $62.50 a night.
One week at the GREAT WALL, one week in BEIJING
My dear American friends who live China have donated the following 2 week stay in China. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity! This incentive does not include transportation and food.
-7 night homestay in their luxury home in Beijing in a gated community in the Dashan District, near the Art District. There is a swimming pool and each room with a private bath. Breakfast included and if you are welcome to use the kitchen. If you are there when the hosts are eating you welcome to join them. Limited to two couples or two singles.
-7 nights in a 6 bedroom luxurious home at the shadow of the Great Wall of China in Yinbeigou (BeiGou) Village at Mutianyu Great Wall. This accommodates 6 couples or 12 people. Be greeted by the bluest of blue skies that hang above the undulations of the Great Wall as it snakes across the skyline. Unforgettable vista. Just 60 minute drive from Beijing. Pictures of this house are below.
2. One 45 minute family therapy session (for 2 people) with psychotherapist Richard Zwolinski along with a signed copy of his book Therapy Revolution: Find Help, Get Better, and Move On.
Richard Zwolinski, LMHC, CASAC is not only the author of Therapy Revolution: Find Help, Get Better, and Move On but also blogs on the Therapy Soup blog at PsychCentral.com. He’s the clinical director of an addiction and mental health treatment center in New York, and has over twenty five years experience treating anxiety, depression, family and relationship issues, and addictions.
*Family therapy session: Option to have a parent-kid session or an individual session.
Richard Zwolinski's Therapy Revolution: Find Help, Get Better, and Move on
NEW REWARDS: LIMITED!!! (Updated: 8/10/11)
Signed book on overcoming strained mother-daughter relationships called SURVIVING MAMA by Dr. Pamela Everett Thompson: a psychologist, professional life coach and owner of Building Bridges to Better Lives. Dr. Thompson has just joined our Board of Advisors. We are so excited!
Dr. Pamela Everett Thompson's Surviving Mama
NEW REWARDS: LIMITED!!! (Updated: 7/8/11)
Now offering SIGNED copies of books by Dr. Diana Kirschner: a talented and highly intelligent Love Expert, Media Psychologist and Bestselling Author who has been featured on Access Hollywood, ABC, USA Today, Oprah, etc.
Dr. Diana Kirschner's Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love(has been acclaimed by 14 luminaries including John Gray & Dr. Christiane Northrup)
Helen Kramer's "Liberating the Adult Within"
NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER Deborah Tannen's "You're Wearing THAT? Mothers and Daughters in Conversation"
NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER Deborah Tannen's "You Were Always Mom's Favorite! Sisters in Conversation Throughout Their Lives"
Impressionist Painting by Daniel Scharf
THIS IS GONE
HOW YOU CAN SUPPORT MY NOSE: THE BIGGER VERSION
1. Contribute today via Kickstarter. Please check out the donation levels to the right and see what you get when you give. International donors please add shipping to your pledge amount.
2. Spread the word. Tell your friends, family, colleagues, Facebook friends, Twitter followers and all other social networks connections. And when you get three or more people to donate, let us know and you will be featured on our blog.
HOW TO DONATE
All you need is a credit card. Just click the green “Back This Project” button in the upper right-hand corner. You will be asked to input your pledge amount and select a reward. From there, you will go through the Amazon checkout process. You must finish the Amazon checkout process for your pledge to be recorded.
Please check out the donation tiers to your right to see how
we are thanking our donors!
CAN YOU DONATE IN SOMEONE ELSE'S NAME?
Of course! Just let us know the name you would like to donate under. We will contact you once funding is complete to gather information so that we could deliver your rewards to whom you please. You can also make your donation in honor of loved ones you've lost.
CAN YOU DONATE AND NOT HAVE YOUR NAME MENTIONED TO THE PUBLIC?
Yes, just let us know that you want to keep this between us and we won't add your name in our credits or on our website. It will be our secret.
HOW KICKSTARTER WORKS
Kickstarter is a new way to fund creative ideas. The program uses a unique all-or-nothing funding method where projects must be fully funded or no money changes hands. Therefore, if we do not raise our goal of $50,000, we lose everything.
IF FUNDING SUCCEEDS…
Once we have reached our goal, we will contact you to get your address so we can send you rewards to enjoy right away!
IF FUNDING FAILS…
All pledges are cancelled if funding fails. Your card will not be charged and it is as if nothing ever happened! We will do not want this to happen. Please donate today and don't put it off. Time flies by. We only have 90 days to make this happen.
CAN YOU DONATE OUTSIDE OF THE UNITED STATES?
Yes! Just click on the Amazon Payment Button. You must finish the Amazon checkout process for your pledge to be recorded. Also, please include shipping in your pledge. If you have any questions with this, please email us.
WANT TO HELP BUT YOU
ARE UNABLE TO DONATE?
Spread the word about the film in your community! Join our groups and fan pages on Facebook. Tweet about it! Any help you can provide broadcasting the Kickstarter campaign is appreciated. Do you want to be an outreach partner? Are you a company, a community and organization and love the film? Contact us and we can brainstorm about partnering together. And of course, we need your help in broadcasting the Kickstarter campaign!.
CAN WE EXCEED THE GOAL?
Absolutely, yes! If we surpass our $50,000 goal , it would not only be a dream come true, but it would allow us to finish the film sooner and make it a better film. It would cover more of our post-production costs and some final shooting.
YOU WANT TO PLAY AN EVEN LARGER ROLE ON THE FILM
For $50,000 you get a Co-Executive Producer credit. There is an Executive Producer credit at $60,000. Your name will appear in the credits for US festivals, Theatrical and television and on IMDB. Please note these are honorary titles and do not require any creative or business involvement. Nor does the title entitle any claim of ownership.
WHERE CAN I LEARN MORE ABOUT THE PROJECT?
Please visit our websiste http://www.mynosethebiggerversion.com
You can view the trailer here. http://www.mynosethebiggerversion.com/video.html
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Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Have a great day!
Hugs to all,
Gayle and the MNBV (My Nose: The Bigger Version) fabulous team
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