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Update #16: Maybe my last report...smile

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Update #15: The book is out now in Kindle as well.

Posted on May 5

So the book launched without me... not to a large fanfare but just a beginning. I am at home from my trip abroad where internet access was sporadic and my phone service told me that it would cost exorbitantly if I dared use it... so...  immediate results piddled. 

I am home and going through mail and trying to catch-up with links, blogs, book requests, and radio interview requests.

I have to now sign and make special dedications to all those that have been close to my heart and my support system of this project. If your reward included a dedicated book, I will let you know when your book is in the mail individually. If you would like a specific thing mentioned in my handwritten dedication to you....let me know. Otherwise my mind will create its own thought process...*smile*

http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_c_2_11?url=search-alias%3Ddigital-text&field-keywords=virgin%27s+handbook+on+virtual+relationships&sprefix=virgin%27s+ha%2Caps%2C187 

This is the link to the Kindle version for only $8.99 but today I noticed they put the paperback book on sale for only $10.76. Something Amazon can do on a whim. So if you think the price was an inhibitor for some now is the time to buy.

http://www.amazon.com/Virgins-Handbook-Virtual-Relationships-Pamala/dp/1463666993/ref=sr_1_cc_1?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1336253835&sr=1-1-catcorr 

I now have to go out and enable all the author webpages for the Kindle version for the UK, Germany & France. Each require I create it independently. So this "Get the book done and sit back thing." has fallen flat...lol.  I worked throughout my vacation in the mornings and evenings giving links and requirements on sites and publicity.

If there are people you would like the ability to order the book that are outside the listed country's.. they can still purchase it through this website. https://www.createspace.com/3643231 

The PR announcement has gone out and we will see if it filters to anyone that needs to see it, since it seems to have been listed in the FINANCIAL sections??? instead of the areas it should have gone toward, so I am holding little hope of the competency of the vendor. http://www.prnewschannel.com/2012/04/25/online-sex-other-taboo-topics-tackled-in-innovative-new-book-offering-solutions-to-virtual-emotional-involvement/

Well that brings you up to date. My visit in the UK allowed me to make several virtual to real connections that I found crossed over rather well. Dear to my heart in real just as much as virtual, so relationships are just relationships...good, bad or ugly. It is us humans that put expectations that others can not  satisfy. If we allow people to be fully who they are...how can we be disappointed?

Hugs... now back to work autographing... *taps chin with pencil*  

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      idev on May 5

      Congrats, Pamala!

Update #14: We have Lift Off!

Posted on April 24

The official Launch date is the 27th, but it is now available on both Amazon & Create Space websites and purchasable. http://www.amazon.com/Virgins-Handbook-Virtual-Relationships-Pamala/dp/1463666993/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1335124218&sr=8-2-fkmr0 is the Amazon location.

The visit to Ireland has caused me electronic stress as tons of things don't work the way they are suppose to... and NOW the publisher wants input amid very sporadic internet connection. Started the PR portion and files getting ready for the Kindle version... should it go to the Kindle Library? 

I thought sure that would be a good thing to do, but I got into 3 paragraphs of the contract where it said they could do what they wanted to do with your book, include give it away and change the contract at any time.. so I balked.

So at the moment 3 weeks should give us a kindle version ready, but only purchased able.

Hugs.. 

Let me know your address to mail your book if that was your reward, if you haven't yet. I have to wait till I get home to order my books.. unless I can get them ordered while abroad. I sure hope they came out right.. had to hit approve without really final approval.. *fingers crossed*

Pam

Update #13: Lucky # 13

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Update #12: Eeeek!! First soft copy book, I can hold in my hands!

Posted on April 3

Well I finally have the book in my hands!! "The Proof'" of the book to make my final revisions.. and then when they fix that... It Goes LIVE!!

Maybe a miracle it becomes available before April 27th, but still want everyone to wait to buy it on that day.

Ummm. it is more purple than I thought, a bit darker on the bottom than I supposed and one correction on the spine that is not the same size,.. but 240 pages and it looks pretty freaking cool to me!!

So now I go through one more time and get the last of the corrections or hiccups in formatting including my mistakes. 

I will stay up all night to get this done and I will turn them in tomorrow, giving them the instructions that once they are corrected to take the book live!

Would welcome any tweets and announcements that you can share with your friends about April 27th.. the Day to buy the book!

If we get it to the top for the day.. the world might actually realize that Virtual Worlds and Online Relationships do indeed have value!

Thanks again for your loving support and patience as this has been a long battle even AFTER the research & writing.

Hugs,

Pamala

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      idev on April 3

      Wow, do you ever look happy!

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      Pamala Clift on April 4

      He he.. Yossel said the same thing. Just finished the last review with the last corrections. Now I am trying to get my mind around the fact that this Book chapter of my life is finally complete!!

      Well not complete.. they still have to make the changes I gave them 54.. and cover corrections to return it to its two tone status.. but that there is nothing more for me to do. I even went and filled out their Create Space website which will be the first place to have the book available even before Amazon. https://www.createspace.com/3643231

      But the goal is to have the rest of the world know We are Valuable and that virtual relationships are important. So even though as I get $3 more per book from the direct link above vs Amazon... at least for April 27th.. I request everyone to buy through Amazon, because no one will see us on the direct link... but the world will see the value if we top the charts.
      Hugs!

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For $1 or more you will receive a Virtual Kiss directly from me, Pamala Clift or my handsome British gentleman within Second Life (try it you may like it *smile*) and my deepest gratitude plus the option of having your name listed as a sponsor on the Virgin's Handbook of Virtual Relationships web page (either avatar or real life name). A jpg logo will be sent to your email proclaiming. "I Find Value in Virtual Relationships!" which you can use in your emails and website & pictures of your relationship. Please lets solve the complexities of perceptions and announce the value of our computer culture's connections. Love to have your assistance in Facebooking & Tweetering our common goal.

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For $10 or more you will receive updated project emails, your Valentine Kiss in Second Life plus a desktop screensaver resolution picture of the kiss in desktop screensaver resolution.

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For $25 or more you get the above & I will send you an audio file with my "well proclaimed provocative" voice of either your choice of two Chapters. Either Chapter 7---To Women--What your men would like you to know. OR Chapter 8---To Men--What women think you already know about them, but you're wrong...lol: Wow, use it for your own edification as how to approach women or understand men, or explain your gender to your significant other. We all want things to work! Now we have the beginnings of a manual! You will have that chapter's solution a full month before it goes out to the public in mere print!

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OMG, OMG, OMG For $50 or more you will receive all of the above plus the choice of telling the world in 45 words or less, after the concluding chapter of the book Your Story. You can use it for: an Ad for a missing online love- Or a Dedication & Valentine's Day present to your love that will forever announce your devotion and the value that you share.(You will receive a Certificate of Contribution to give your Valentine with your paragraph, Announcing the value you give to your Virtual Relationships) Need the passage by the beginning of Feb to be included.

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For $100 or more you will receive all of the above plus the very PDF that I sent to the publisher from which the book will be formatted, a month before it is published,

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For $250 or greater you will receive all of the above plus a personal Skype call or visit in Second Life in which we can meet for an hour in voice to discuss your own ups & downs with relationships. Possibly to be told in book II. I will also mail you an autographed copy of my book after it is finished to the address you specify.

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Pam's lectures have been peer reviewed by hundreds of educators, business professionals and social media experts with great input and acknowledgments.

When she speaks her introductions describe her as,"an autodidactic observer of psychology and anthropological interactions" meaning she sees things others might not see from a broader perspective.

A BS degree in Business Mgt, a Certified Scrum Product Owner and a former professional clown, she brings with her a lifetime of eclectic experiences from which she draws her favorite title.. "Philosopher".

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