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Mothers/Artists You Must Meet

Update #67 · May 19, 2013 · comment

Mothers and Artists You Must Meet

Throughout the making of Lost In Living and as the film screens in various places I have the great pleasure of receiving letters and emails from some of the most talented, determined, resilient artists who are also mothers. I feel quite honored to be the recipient of their very kind words about the film and their stories of balancing creative lives while raising children. All of them have unique narratives and situations and all of them persevere in work and parenting. I am greatly inspired by them and I will be sharing their work in this newsletter and other newsletters in the future. Here are three women who write, perform, sing, play music, photograph, collage and paint. I hope you are as inspired as I am.

ANDREA PETERMAN/Singer, Songwriter, Mother

http://www.andreapeterman.com/index.html

Born in Minneapolis, Andrea spent her early childhood in Minnesota, Michigan, and rural Wisconsin, and her teen years in the mountain town of Missoula, Montana. She headed back to the Midwest to attend Northwestern University, where she studied classical voice, acting, and dance, and earned degrees in music and history.

Before writing and performing her original material, she spent a number of years on the stage, eventually making her way to New York City, where she used her vocal skills in musical theater and acted in theater and film. She started performing with live bands after a move to Los Angeles, singing jazz, blues, and pop standards.

Her first song was written for a character in a screenplay she was co-writing with a friend. The response prompted her to write more and soon she was playing her alt-country originals in clubs and bars around Los Angeles with her band, The Alternators. Her first album, Miles To Go, was released in early 2008. 

Andrea currently lives in Seattle with her husband and two young children. After taking a break to tend to the babies, she is at work on her second album.

AMANDA HIRSCH/Writer, Performer, Mother

http://amandahirsch.com/

Amanda's New Book
Feeling My Way: Finding Motherhood Without Losing Myself
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/B00C5VPTR6/creativedc-20

Brooklyn-based writer and performer Amanda Hirsch was 34 years old when she and her husband decided they wanted to have a child. The decision was prompted when her doctor told her, "'Maybe' never turns into 'no,' and it only gets harder as you get older." Bam. Hirsch found out she was pregnant in the middle of Hurricane Irene, and she chronicles the stormy emotions of pregnancy, from elation, to shock, to sheer terror at the prospect of what having a child will do to her life. Like all women, Hirsch wears many hats -- in her case, the hats include artist, business owner and wife; how will she wear the motherhood hat without sacrificing other parts of her identity that are so important to her? Once her daughter is born, she is overcome with love, and documents the disorienting rush of new motherhood, while showing us how she slowly re-inhabits the other parts of her life. Motherhood does change her, but it doesn't limit her.

This is a book for pregnant women anticipating parenthood, for new mothers who want to know they aren't alone as they adjust to this profound change in their lives, and for any mother who wants to remember what it felt like when this enormous part of their identity was brand spanking new. It's also a book for anyone looking for a window into how new motherhood feels, and for anyone struggling to lead a life that balances many passions.

MICHELLE JOHNSTON/Writer, Photographer, Painter, Collage Artist, Mother

http://michellejohnston.net

Michelle Johnston lives in Bungendore NSW, Australia with her husband, three girls, a cat called Matisse, six chooks and a very large garden. Michelle is the Author and Publisher of Woman on the Verge - The Subject is Herself. She is also contributing to the Arts in the Canberra Region giving Art-Journal and Creativity Workshops locally. Michelle gave herself a 30 day art/play/mend/make challenge. Here is her description of it in her own words:
"I am the mother of three girls under ten years. Lately I have found myself slightly frustrated with the amount of time and dare I say creative energy that goes into maintaining our house and life. And since the real problem is priorities I have made a big decision for the good of all. Art/Play/Mend/Make first. I don't know how this will effect the greater whole, most likely they will not notice or even care and I will most likely save electricity from not vacuuming the floor so regularly but that could be good for the environment anyways so yes win/win perhaps. Anyway the point is I am fed up with my own whining and feeing mostly that I am letting myself down because I haven't gotten around to doing most of any of the things I value. This is the plan: Each day create/play/mend/make something. Even if one cannot be bothered it shall be done regardless. Do it for 30 consecutive days and no judgement, if for some reason it does not happen. Each day keep a list of all things that fit into the above category. Potentially post some pictures/lists of things I have come up with. You can join in too, you may not have the same reasons as me, that doesn't matter. It is about making yourself happy and being subject in your life and doing what you need to do, without any excuse. And off we go..."

Check out her website to find out what she did and to see so much of her beautiful work as well as buy her book!

NEWS ABOUT Lost In Living:

DVD's are now available for sale on the website here. Thank you for your support and for sharing this film with friends and family.

Please like the facebook page here to get the most recent information and specific details about future screenings. And if you are not a subscriber of the newsletter please join by clicking here.

We have two upcoming screenings in Fargo, North Dakota and at The National Gallery in the Cayman Islands. I will be at the Fargo screening on Thursday, June 13th. That screening takes place at the beautiful and Historic Fargo Theatre at 7pm and the event is free. All four women from the film will be attending as well and a discussion panel will take place following the screening and moderated by Colleen Sheehy, Director and CEO of The Plains Arts Museum in Fargo. Hope to see you there! Details coming about the The National Gallery screening.

House Parties have been popping up all over where small groups are screening the film in living rooms and having lively discussions about the film. I offer a House Party Kit that includes the DVD of the film, an Extras DVD with an hour and a half of extra footage, a 23 page discussion guide, postcard invitations and a totebag. I can also be available to skype after the screening and answer questions. So please check out the House Party Kit here.

As always I thank you for your incredible support and please feel free to email me anytime (marytrunk@sbcglobal.net) if you have questions or comments, you'd like to share something in the newsletter or share your work. I love hearing from you. 

-Mary  

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Merrill's New Book

Update #66 · Apr 30, 2013 · comment

Hello Backers and Supporters!

Merrill Joan Gerber is one of the wonderful subjects of my film Lost In Living and she has a new book coming out on May 14th called The Hysterectomy Waltz. She also painted the cover for the book (see below)!

"The Hysterectomy Waltz (surely a contradiction) reflects what is told to the women in the novel who are about to undergo this surgery: "You will still be able to waltz the night away with your husbands," and "you don't need all that equipment once you've used it to have kids." The book itself is full of irony, cynicism, humor, and sexuality."

"It's truly powerful, and acrid, and barbed, and filled with wonderful, and unexpected, turns of phrase and above all it's shocking in its directness and understated anger and sadness and fear… it's an amazing piece of writing."—Cynthia Ozick

Merrill will be reading from her new book at Vroman's Book Store, 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena, CA 91101 on Monday, May 13th at 7 pm. Click here for more information.

The Hysterectomy Waltz is available on Amazon here and also through Dzanc Books here. Please visit Merrill's website here for more information about her many other books and for an appreciation of her work and an excerpt from The Hysterectomy Waltz click here.

MERRILL JOAN GERBER is a prize-winning novelist and short story writer who has published seven novels — among them King Of The World, which won the Pushcart Press Editor's Book Award for an "important and unusual book of literary distinction," and The Kingdom of Brooklyn, winner of the Ribalow Award from Hadassah Magazine for "the best English-language book of fiction on a Jewish theme" — as well as five volumes of short stories, nine young adult novels, and three books of non-fiction. Her short stories have appeared in The New Yorker, The Atlantic, Mademoiselle, Redbook and many other magazines, as well as in literary journals such as The Sewanee Review, Prairie Schooner, The Southwest Review, Shenandoah, The Chattahoochee Review and The Virginia Quarterly Review. Her story, "I Don't Believe This," won an O. Henry Prize Award in l986. She has published essays inThe American Scholar, Commentary, The Sewanee Review, Salmagundi and The Writer. She earned her M.A. in English from Brandeis University and was awarded a Wallace Stegner Fiction Fellowship to Stanford University. She presently teaches fiction writing at the California Institute of Technology in Pasadena, California.

NEWS ABOUT Lost In Living:

Please check out the NEW two minute trailer for the film by clicking here.

The screening at Claremont McKenna College went very well. Thank you to those who made it there and to all of you who spread the word. Below is an update on future screenings. Thank you to everyone who is helping to get this film out into the world.

• Saturday, May 4th, 2013. 11:00 am. Museum of Motherhood, 401 East 84th Street, New York, NY 10028. M.O.M. Conference, May 2, 3, 4 2013. I will be there to present the film and answer questions after the screening.

• Thursday, May 9th, 2013. 7:00 pm. Santa Monica College, 1900 Pico Blvd., Santa Monica, CA. Humanities and Social Sciences Building, Room 263. Hosted by Women, Action + Media LA (WAM LA!). FREE and Open to the public. I will be there to discuss the film and answer questions. Some of the women from the film may be there as well.

DVD's are now available for sale on the website here. Thank you for your support and for sharing this film with friends and family.

Please like the facebook page here to get the most recent information and specific details about future screenings. And if you are not a subscriber of the newsletter please join by clicking here.

If you or an organization you are affiliated with would like to host a screening, please let me know. Maybe your school or college would be interested in hosting a screening as part of a classroom curriculum or department event. I would love to discuss it with you. On the website store page are some guidelines to organize just such an event at your school. Click here for details. And look under "Lost In Living" Educational DVD. Or read this:

How to Bring Lost In Living to your Campus

1) Contacting your school's Office of Student Activities is generally a good place to start. Each school is different, and the Office of Student Activities at your school may then refer you to another student group or academic department.

2) You can also start by asking the department heads or professors of various academic departments in your school to inquire if there is a possibility of co-presenting or co-sponsoring the screening.

Lost In Living is particularly suited to classes in:
• Women's Studies
• Gender Studies
• Sociology
• Psychology
• Film/Media Studies
• Documentary Production

3) You can also organize to have me speak with the film screening. I normally charge a speaking fee per event but I am more than willing to work with the budgets of various student organizations and academic departments to coordinate a campus screening and presentation. I am also available to skype with smaller groups.

I truly appreciate your help and participation. This film could not have been made without you. Please feel free to share this update with friends! Thank you.
-Mary

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Two New Screenings

Update #65 · Apr 15, 2013 · comment

Hello Everyone!

We have TWO SCREENINGS coming up in Southern California. I am grateful to Audrey Bilger, Janice Rhoshalle Littlejohn and Melanie Klein for organizing and making these happen. Here is all the information you'll need to attend and spread the word:

Thursday, April 25th, 2013. 4:00 pm. Claremont McKenna College, 500 E. 9th Street, Claremont, CA. Pickford Auditorium (Bauer Center). Sponsored and Hosted by The Berger Institute for Work, Family, and Children and The Center for Writing and Public Discourse. FREE and Open to the public. I will be there to discuss the film and answer questions.

• Thursday, May 9th, 2013. 7:00 pm. Santa Monica College, 1900 Pico Blvd., Santa Monica, CA. Humanities and Social Sciences Building, Room 263. Hosted by Women, Action + Media LA. FREE and Open to the public. I will be there to discuss the film and answer questions. Some of the women from the film may be there as well.

Details about screenings in New York and North Dakota will be coming soon.

DVD's are now available for sale on the website here. Thank you for your support and for sharing this film with friends and family.

Please like the facebook page here to get the most recent information and specific details about future screenings. And if you are not a subscriber of the newsletter please join by clicking here.

We've had the pleasure of getting noticed and mentioned by some wonderful writers, bloggers and artists. I'd like to share those links with you below. And please check out their sites. These people are incredibly talented and I am grateful for their support of Lost In Living.

• Rachel Power at The Rachel Papers.

• Susan Perry interviewed me for her blog Creating in Flow.

Claire Thomas.

Karen Maezen Miller.

Duplex Collective.

Feature Shoot.

If you or an organization you are affiliated with would like to host a screening, please let me know. Maybe your school or college would be interested in hosting a screening as part of a classroom curriculum or department event. I would love to discuss it with you. On the website store page are some guidelines to organize just such an event at your school. Click here for details. And look under "Lost In Living" Educational DVD. Or read this:

How to Bring Lost In Living to your Campus

1) Contacting your school's Office of Student Activities is generally a good place to start. Each school is different, and the Office of Student Activities at your school may then refer you to another student group or academic department.

2) You can also start by asking the department heads or professors of various academic departments in your school to inquire if there is a possibility of co-presenting or co-sponsoring the screening.

Lost In Living is particularly suited to classes in:
• Women's Studies
• Gender Studies
• Sociology
• Psychology
• Film/Media Studies
• Documentary Production

3) You can also organize to have me speak with the film screening. I normally charge a speaking fee per event but I am more than willing to work with the budgets of various student organizations and academic departments to coordinate a campus screening and presentation. I am also available to skype with smaller groups.

I truly appreciate your help and participation. This film could not have been made without you. Please feel free to share this update with friends! Thank you.
-Mary

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A Little Thank You

Update #64 · Apr 1, 2013 · comment

Hello Backers! 

First, I want to thank you once again for your support and make sure everyone received their rewards. If you haven't yet received what you are due, please email me at marytrunk@sbcglobal.net and I will remedy that situation right away. And apologies for the mix-up. 

Second I thought you all might enjoy the following links I've collected over the past few weeks. All from the amazing blog brainpickings. If you don't already subscribe to it, click here to do just that. At the bottom of this update are a few posts that I enjoyed quite a bit. Hope you do too.

DVD's are now available for sale on the website here. We have already had a few very successful screenings so far and a few more are coming up. One definite date is Thursday, May 9th at 7pm at Santa Monica College. Room 263 in the Humanities & Social Science Building. This event is hosted by Women, Action + Media LA. Huge thanks to Janice Rhoshalle Littlejohn and Melanie Klein for organizing this. Hope to see you there.

Please like the facebook page here to get the most recent information and specific details about future screenings.  You can also get the same info by joining the newsletter here.

If you or an organization you are affiliated with would like to host a screening, please let me know. Maybe your school or college would be interested in hosting a screening as part of a classroom curriculum or department event. I would love to discuss it with you. On the website store page are some guidelines to organize just such an event at your school. Click here for details. And look under "Lost In Living" Educational DVD. 

I truly appreciate your help and participation. This film could not have been made without you.

-Mary

Advice about solitude from Andrei Tarkovsky:

http://www.brainpickings.org/index.php/2013/03/13/tarkovsky-advice-to-the-young/

Musings about art by Susan Sontag:

http://www.brainpickings.org/index.php/2012/11/30/susan-sontag-on-art/

Thoughts on the meaning of life by Henry Miller:

http://www.brainpickings.org/index.php/2013/03/21/henry-miller-meaning-of-life/

And some ideas on how to stay sane by Phillipa Perry:

http://www.brainpickings.org/index.php/2013/02/05/how-to-stay-sane-philippa-perry/

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DVD's NOW AVAILABLE

Update #63 · Mar 11, 2013 · comment

Hello Supporters!  

You have been so patient - thank you. I am happy to tell you that DVD's for Lost In Living are now available at the store on the website. Please visit here and click on "Buy the DVD."

We are also offering House Party Kits which will include a second DVD of extra footage and an in-depth discussion guide. 

As you know, I spent seven years documenting and recording four women as they experienced parenthood for the first time and the last time. I was there when they felt the loss of creative energy, grappled with divorce, regret, triumphs and failures.

This movie is an in-depth exploration of a domain normally off-limits – illumination of private experience, events that happen behind closed doors and the unveiling of one’s most personal, private and conflicted thoughts about life, family, artistic expression and self-image. 

These amazing women shared their personal stories so that I may share them with you.

What job entity wields the most private power on the planet and yet has no public face? Motherhood, the world’s most demanding, least compensated job. Where only perfection is acceptable and failure is certain. And who are these women who become mothers even when their creative compulsion tells them not to? Lost In Living focuses on that very issue. This story is about feeling like an outsider and wanting to be special. About wanting to be heard – and don’t we all?

Lost In Living is not a traditional Hero Story. Hero stories are great. We love to be inspired by the long shot, the renegade, the against all odds success. But we also long to see our own more nuanced and less formulaic experiences presented to us for reflection and identification. Lost In Living is about every aspect of the complexities of living in our modern world.  

Thank you all for being a big part of this journey with me. All Kickstarter rewards have already been sent or are on their way. If you have not received your reward, please let me know. Some of you I will be seeing soon and I plan to hand it over then. 

Below is the new two minute trailer for the film. Sharing the trailer and the link to purchase DVD's would be wonderful and I am very grateful. 

xo Mary

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